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Walking away from Knee-Deep in Tech and Data Masterminds brought relief instead of grief - a signal I’d been ignoring for too long. From running my first 5K to confronting how organizations prefer data theater over insight, 2025 taught me that outdated identity narratives are self-reinforcing through identity protection: our brains maintain coherence over accuracy. Learn why the stories we tell about who we are become data points, not destiny, and what ‘walking toward what matters’ means in practice for 2026.

You think ChatGPT is ’thinking’? It’s rolling dice, one token at a time. LLMs don’t plan, reason, or understand: they sample from probability distributions based on statistical patterns. Worse, if you’re working in Swedish, Arabic, or most non-English languages, you’re getting a fundamentally degraded product due to tokenization bias. And as these models increasingly train on their own outputs, they’re collapsing into irreversible mediocrity. Understanding what’s actually happening changes everything.

Research shows measurable cognitive decline after just four months of LLM use. Like GPS destroyed our spatial navigation abilities, AI is atrophying our thinking. Here’s what the science reveals, the warning signs you’re in too deep, why organizations should be terrified, and what we can do about it.

LLMs are sophisticated pattern-matching engines, not thinking machines. Our hardwired tendency to anthropomorphize combined with dopamine-driven addiction pathways is changing how we interact with these tools. Understanding what they actually are is the first step to using them wisely.

From Michael Jordan’s lucky shorts to my pre-talk routines: rituals help performers access their best state. While ‘power posing’ science failed, the psychology of consistent pre-performance routines holds up. Discover why rituals work, how they create mental anchors, and the three specific rituals that help me deliver better presentations.

Sugar went from luxury to ubiquitous poison before we understood what it was doing to us. We’re doing the exact same thing with AI, adding it to everything without genuine use cases, while it erodes literacy and critical thinking. By the time we realize what we’ve lost, the infrastructure will already be built.

The ‘Angel’s Cocktail’ story about releasing hormones through storytelling is popular, but the real mechanisms are richer and more useful. Learn what’s actually happening when you hook your audience—and how understanding attention, memory, and cognitive tension makes you a better speaker.

A new city, a new country, and a new session - so many firsts in Hungary!

‘The Untruthful Art’ is back for 2025, completely revamped for our AI-driven misinformation era. With 59% of shared links never clicked and AI presenting statistical hallucinations as facts, data literacy has never been more critical. I’m updating with modern examples: AI benchmarks, social media dynamics, election polling, and climate data manipulation.

The ‘30-second rule’ for presentations is based on a misunderstood study, but the principle of starting strong still matters. Learn why leading with credentials fails, how to open with value instead, and why I memorize every word of my first five minutes.

It is time to resurrect the blog, almost exactly 10 years after its inception.

Southwest Airlines’ December scheduling collapse exposed the dangers of deprioritizing both people and technical debt, as 90s-era systems designed for 300 daily operations failed under 20,000+ operations following a leadership shift from operational focus to profit-driven management.

Encountered cryptic NuGet package errors while setting up a .NET test environment. The fix: remind NuGet where to find packages by re-adding the source with dotnet nuget add source. A simple solution to a confusing problem.

Retiring my most successful session after 20 presentations. Not because it failed, but because it exploded beyond what one session can hold. Splitting the original ‘The Untruthful Art’ into multiple new talks, with the final bow at DataMinds Connect in October.

Conferences aren’t the party most people think they are. The hidden reality: spending 10-100 hours preparing a single session, the mental exhaustion of networking, and why professional conferences are about career growth, not celebration.

One virtual session at Global Power BI Summit, then straight to the airport for SQLBits in London. Two talks, three countries, five days. The European data conference scene doesn’t stop, and neither do I this week!

Pandemic killed 2020’s plans. Now finally back on stage at DataMinds Connect in Belgium with a new session on something technical speakers ignore: emotions. First in-person conference travel since the world stopped. I’m so ready to teach again!

Years ago, fear kept me silent about bad actors in tech. Now stepping away from Data Weekender after organizers kept a speaker with documented harmful behavior. Safety demands action, not just codes of conduct. No longer afraid to speak out.

Survived a year of remote work with three essential tools: OBS for presentations that don’t bore people to death, Hugo to escape WordPress hell, and a Kindle that keeps me sane when screens become too much.

Live demos waste time at conferences. After 20+ years training, I’ve learned that controlled, pre-crafted demonstrations teach better than live coding. Can’t zoom, highlight, or control pacing when coding live. My job is helping you learn, not showing off.